Obituaries

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Duncan, Mary (Bond)

Mary Bond Duncan
1843-Oct. 18, 1887

Niles Republican, Thursday, October 20, 1900, page 5, col. 2, from Niles Daily Star, microfilm Niles District Library

OBITUARY

 

Died, at her home in this city, Oct. 18, 1887, Mrs. Mary Bond Duncan, aged 44 years.

The unexpected  tidings of this death of this lady, so dearly beloved by a large number of appreciative friends in this city and throughout the state, will be read through blinding tears. But yesterday she was the radient centre, the life and soul of a loving circle, to-day, while on every side are displayed reminders of her thoughtful care and tender love, she has passed from the sight of loved ones; only the echo of her cheery words salute us as we linger sadly among the scenes she loved so well, but her voice is silenced forever, and the once happy home is desolate. The sisters who shared her loved and companionship listen in vain to catch the sound of her lithesome step. The mother, bending under the accumulated sorrows of four score years, feels that the staff upon which she has so securely leaned is broken. The bereft husband--but no, we may not if we could, speak of his loss. No words, however tender, no language, however soothing, can staunch his bleeding heart. As loving friends we may weave a garland of immortelles to place over the pulseless heart, and strew choice flowers about her casket. These tokens of love bring a slight relief to our sorrow, but even the tenderest words of affection and love sound harsh to such a stricken soul. Only he who brought joy and gladness to the mourning sisters of Bethany can speak peace and comfort to his stricken heart.

Mary Bond was born in Niles, was educated in our schools, and has always lived among us, with the exception of a few years spent in teaching at Detroit and Battle Creek. As a teacher, no more conscientious and painstaking instructor ever crossed the threshold of our schools, and her success was equal to her endeavors. It is doubtful if her system ever recovered from the hard strain incident to her profession. The seeds of disease, received during the long years of exhausting labor in the heated air of the school room, ripened at last in death.

Six years ago she was united in marriage to Major L.A. Duncan, Editor of the Republican, and the shower of congratulations which was poured in upon them gave evidence of the love and esteem in which they were held.

Mrs. Duncan was endowed by nature with more than average intellectual ability which she [illegible] and strengthened by by judicious reading and study. Her well-known industry in this direction was not that she might outshine others, but that she might the better enjoy the companionship of the educated, and add something to the general stock of intelligence in this age of advancing and advanced thought. Her place in the historical club will, we fear, long remain vacant.

Her busy brain and active hands found ample time amid her family cares, to labor for the church and for society at large. When in early life she united with the Presbyterian church, she gave herself to Christ, to spend and be spent in his service, and her devotion never flagged.  As president of the Ladies' Aid Society, her tact and judgment were conspicuous.  We need not look long to discover the cause of her phenominal[sic] popularity among all classes. She possessed a true woman's heart, polished and adorned with all the Christian graces. To her immediate friends she was unselfishly devoted. To all with whom she came in contact, equals and inferiors alike, she was courteous, considerate, charitable, cordial, without affectation.  Her heart glowed with kindness for all, enabling her to stoop to the humblest without loss of dignity. Her influence was wide spread and did not die with her. Her neighbors and friends will emulate her virtues and hold her memory as a sacred inheritance. Sorrow for her death is noticable[sic] on every hand, surely if a wealth of  sympathy could assuage grief the mourning of the family would be short.

The funeral will be attended at the Presbyterian church Friday afternoon, at 3 o'clock.


Niles Democrat, Saturday, October 22, 1887, page 5, col. 4, microfilm Niles District Library

Died

 

Died, at her home in this city on Tuesday, Oct. 18, 1887, of neuralgia of the stomach, Mary Bond, wife of Major L.A. Duncan.

Though Mrs. Duncan was confined to the house for some days, having relapsed from a former long and tedious illness, the news received each day from the sick room gave promise of her early complete recovery, and when the said intelligence was received that death had claimed her, the sorrow expressed was wide felt and sincere.

The deceased was born in this city, being a daughter of the late John Bond, was reared here; educated in our schools and spent all of her too short life among us, except for a few years when she taught acceptably in the schools of Detroit and Battle Creek.

She was married Nov. 17, 1881, to Major L.A. Duncan, of the Republican, and seldom indeed it is given to any to know how large a place they have in the respect, esteem and love of their fellow mortals, as it was given to her the idol of many a heart.

She was devoted during her life to all good work being prominent in church, literary and charitable movements. But is is of her school life we would chiefly speak.

Entering upon her chosen vocation of teaching before she was seventeen years of age, with a bright and active mind, an enthusiastic spirit and a kind and sympathetic heart, her success was assured from the first--a success that has today its grandest testimony in the minds and heart of the many of her old pupils scattered through a dozen different states who so fondly remember their former teacher not alone nor chiefly for the "book knowledge" so successful imparted, but for higher lessons of life taught, for the hearty sympathy that so freely went out to them in the trials and tribulations of school life.

Such lives, such examples are not, cannot, often be given  us yet they accomplish the highest of good--the making of the world better, the purifying and ennobling of the purposes and lives of others, It seems now that "Miss Bond" was too devoted to a calling in enduring the labors of which she shattered her constitution, the strain resulting from which too soon loosed the silver cord, and though sympathize as we may we cannot do nor say aught to allevate[sic] the crushing sorrow of those nearest and dearest to her, can there be in their hearts aught, but the holiest joy that of such as she it has been written "Greater love hath no man than this that a man lay down his life for his friends."

 

Duncan, Lawson A.

Major Lawson A. Duncan
Jan. 21, 1832-Aug. 5, 1900


Niles Republican, Thursday, August 9, 1900, page 1, col. 3-4, from Niles Daily Sun, August 6, 1900, microfilm Niles District Library

GONE TO HIS REWARD

The Silent Messenger of Death Enters Our Midst and Claims

MAJOR LAWSON A. DUNCAN

Full of Years and Honors He Passes Away at 11 O'clock Last Evening


From Monday's Daily Sun.

In the death of Major Lawson A. Duncan, late editor of the NILES REPUBLICAN and DAILY SUN, which occurred at 11 o'clock last night, caused by heart and brain trouble, there passed away one of the most prominent country weekly newspaper publishers, not only of Berrien county, but of the entire country.  His death is naturally  a great shock to his relatives, his associates and to the community of Niles, in which he was a universally esteemed citizen.

SKETCH OF HIS LIFE

A sturdy, honest, brave and loyal-hearted man was Lawson A. Duncan, whose name has stood at the head of the editorial columns of the Niles Republican. He was of Scotch descent, and Virginia and Ohio parentage, but was born in Indiana, on the front edge of the winter of 1832. The Duncan family had a good name, which L.A. Duncan has never tarnished.  His grandfather on his mother's side was a Scott, and held the position of territorial judge in Indiana for 20 years; and also held other offices. Duncan still has the commissions, issued to his ancestor by Madison, Monroe, Harrison, Tyler, Taylor and Fillmore. Mr. Duncan learned the printer's trade, went west in 1856, and in 1858, with the late George H. Jerome as a partner, he started the Iowa City Republican. In 1862 Duncan was appointed by the governor of Iowa as one of the commissioners to settle the swamp land claims of the state against the general government, but left that work to go into the army. Started in as adjutant of the Fortieth Iowa infantry, went through every battle his regiment was in, and several that it wasn't in, and got out with honor, a bad scar and a major's commission--the highest vacancy in this regiment--after having refused several promotions outside of the regiment. He was also with Gen. Steele in his campaign to co-operate with Banks on the disastrous Red River expedition, after the fall of Vicksburg.  Acted as aide-de-camp and assistant adjutant general during part of that memorable tramp. When the war was over Major Duncan settled up his business in Iowa and came to Michigan, and set up for himself at Niles. In 1866, he bought the Niles Inquirer and Berrien County Freeman, consolidated the two offices, and called the consolidation the NILES REPUBLICAN, which he owned and edited until August 1, 1899, when failing health compelled him to retire from active life. Mr. Duncan served as a member of the Republican state central committee, was a presidential elector for the Fourth district in 1872, was alderman and also a state senator from Berrien and Cass counties in 1883. He was a member of the Republican county committee three terms and chairman twice.

The press of the state at large has frequently spoken in highest terms of the deceased, who was one of the oldest members of the journalistic profession in this city, and a devoted, public-spirited citizen, wielding a widespread influence for the general welfare.  In newspaper circles he was  a universal favorite, one of the most congenial and companionable of men, whose friendship was highly prized. He was a good, clean newspaper man, possessing the social feeling, ready wit and good cheer that do so much to cement the secret brotherhood.

Mr. Duncan gave much of his time and effort to various activities outside of his profession, attaining prominence in a number of fraternal organizations as the Royal Arcanum, in which he carried $1,500 insurance, in the Masonic order, Knights of Pythias and Maccabees. He was an honorary member of the Modern Woodmen of America and was past commander of the G.A.R. He had also held the offices of first adjutant and quarter-master of the G.A.R.

In 1882 he was married to Mary Bond, daughter of the late John Bond, of his city. Their union was an exceptionally happy one until six years after marriage death claimed Mrs. Duncan.

Major Duncan was a consistent member of the Presbyterian church of this city and occupied many positions of trust in the church during his entire time here.

Owing to the absence of certain relatives the funeral arrangements have not yet been made.

 

Wideman, Isaac

Isaac Wideman
July 1869-May 5, 1925


Niles Daily Star, Tuesday, May 5, 1925, page 5, col. 2, microfilm Niles District Library

Isaac Wideman, 55, Dies Early Today

 

Isaac Wideman, 55, a resident of Niles for 15 years, died this morning at 3:30 o'clock at this home, 1111 S. Third street, after suffering for more than a year with a carcinoma affiction in his face.

Mr. Wideman was born near Akron, Indiana in July , 1869.  He was married there to Miss Elizabeth Young, who survives him.  Of the six children born to them four survive their father. They are George, Devon, Alvin and Dorothy, all at home. Besides the widow and children, Mr. Wideman is survived by his mother, Mrs. Rachel Taylor, of Niles, and by brothers and sisters as follows: John, William and Noah Wideman, Mrs. Rachel Starr and Mrs. Glenn Murphy, all of Niles. The mother of Mr. Wideman is near 80 years old, and this is the first death among her children.

For a number of years Mr. Wideman was employed at the Kawneer. he was musically inclined and was a valued member of the Kawneer band during its organization period. Fraternally, he was a member  of Niles camp, Modern Woodmen of America.

The body is now at the Troost and Augustine undertaking rooms and the funeral services will be held there on Thursday afternoon at 2:30 o'clock. Rev. J.W. Sheehan, pastor of the Methodist church will officiate. Burial will take place in Silver Brook cemetery.

During his residence here Mr. Wideman had made may friends who mourn his death.


Niles Daily Star, Wednesday, May 6, 1925, page 4, col. 2, microfilm Niles District Library

FUNERAL THURSDAY

The funeral services for Isaac Wideman will be held Thursday afternoon at 2:30 o'clock from the Troost and Augustine funeral home at Cedar and Second streets. Burial will take place in Silverbrook cemetery. Rev. J.W. Sheehan of the Methodist church will officiate.

 

Beukema, Virginia

Virginia Beukema
Oct. 28, 1922-April 2, 1981


Niles Daily Star, Saturday, April 4, 1981, page 2, col. 8, microfilm Niles District Library

Virginia Bukema, 58, of 2639 S. 11th Street, Niles, died Thursday at Paul Stephan Nursing Home.

Ms. Beukema, a waitress, was born Oct. 28, 1922 in Chicago.  Her husband, Maynard Beukema, is also deceased.

Services will be held Tuesday, April 7, at [sic] a.m. at Pifer-Smith Funeral Home with Rt. Rev. Msgr. John D. Slowey officiating.

Burial will be at Silverbrook Cemetery. Pallbearers will be Robert Taulbee, Glenn Daisy, Frank Daisy, Edward Daisy, Max Handley and Roy Versaw.

Friends may call after 7 p.m. on Monday.

 

Parchman, Alma Marie

Alma Marie Parchman
Aug. 4, 1933-April 2, 1981

Niles Daily Star, Friday, April 3, 1981, page 2, col. 7, microfilm Niles District Library

Alma Marie Parchman, 47, 1109 N. Ninth St., Niles, died April 2 in Memorial Hospital, South Bend, after an extended illness. She was a homemaker.

Born August 4, 1933, in Hickman, Kentucky, she married James Parchman January 12, 1952, in Carrent, Mississippi. He survives her.

Also surviving are four daughters, Mrs. Linda Ann Green, Alma F. Parchman, Twana Marie Moore, and Cathrine D. Parchman, all of Niles; a son, Jimmie Lee Parchman, Niles; a brother George Haynes, Fulton, Kentucky; and a sister, Louise Haynes, Clinton, Kentucky.

She had 16 grandchildren.

Mrs. Parchman was a member of Bethlehem Baptist Church.

Funeral services will be Monday, April 7, at Mt. Calvary Baptist Church. The Rev. Dennis Giden, of Mt. Olive Baptist Church, South Bend, will officiate.

Burial will be in Silverbrook Cemetery.

Friends may call at Pifer-Smith Funeral Home after 2 p.m. Sunday.

Wake services will be held 7 to 8 p.m. Sunday.

 

Bond, Sarah A.

Sarah A. Bond
Dec. 7, 1817-March 11, 1900


Niles Republican, Thursday, March 15, 1900, page 1, col. 1, microfilm Niles District Library

The Oldest Resident

Likewise the Oldest Person Called Away

Peculiar Coincidence


From Monday's Sun.

MRS. SARAH A. BOND

 

Mrs. Sarah A. Bond died Sunday morning at 12:10 o'clock at the family home corner of Hickory and south Seventh streets. She had been in poor health for some time and death is atributed to old age and its attendant ills.

Mrs. Sarah A. Bond was born in 1817 near Richmond, Ind., and came to Niles October 14, 1829. She was married to Chas Bond, Centreville, Mich., in '42. He died Dec. 21, '52.  To Mr. and Mrs. Bond three children were born, only one of whom, Col. F. Bond, of this city, survives his parents.

Deceased was a devout member of Trinity church for many years, and in church work as in other things,her warm heart and sweet nature displayed itself in many ways. She was by nature quiet and unassuming and her kindly spirit and open heart made her loved by many and the friends who knew her best loved her most.

Mrs. Bond was the oldest resident of Niles and it was ever a pleasure to hear her discourse on the personal experience in days that have long since been recorded on the broad page of the history of the past.

Ever entertaining, kind and amicable, for such she will be remembered, the oldest resident of Niles has passed away.

The remains will be interred form the residence tomorrow at 2 o'clock, p.m. The last resting place, Silver [sic] cemetery.

 

Note:  Two obituaries appeared under this headline. The other for Lillie Thomson, born Oct. 23, 1802, who had lived in Niles since 1844 and was the "oldest resident". Sarah A. Bond was born Dec. 7, 1817 but had lived in Niles since 1829.

 

Thomson, Lillie (Aitken)

Lillie (Aitken) Thomson*
Oct. 23, 1802-March 11, 1900


Niles Republican, Thursday, March 15, 1900, page 1, col. 1, microfilm Niles District Library

The Oldest Resident

Likewise the Oldest Person Called Away

Peculiar Coincidence


From Monday's Sun.

MRS. SAMUEL THOMPSON

 

Mrs. Samuel Thompson, who for a long time has borne the distinction of being the oldest person of Niles, passed peacefully away yesterday morning at 3 o'clock, at her home on Lincon[sic] avenue. Deceased had been in failing health for a year past and a serious accident with which she met a few days ago hastened the end.

Mrs. Thompson was born in Glascow, Scotland, in October, 1802, and together with her husband and family of five children bade farewell to Scotland's sunny clime and sailed for American in 1844.

They crossed the turbulent Atlantic, sailed up the Hudson river, through the Erie canal, thence via the great lakes to St. Joseph, from which place they took a river steamer to Niles, thus traversing the entire distance on water.

Upon their arrival here they betook themselves to the old homestead, two miles west. In all eight children were born to them. In 1885, Mr. Thompson died, and now that his faithful helpmate has joined him in the great hereafter, but three of the children remain to mourn the loss they have sustained. The are Samuel C., James B. and Miss Agness H., all well known residents of this vicinity.

Deceased was an active member of the Presbyterian church and was a woman of deep intellectual and spiritual attainments and her lovely character impressed itself upon all those who came in contact with her.

The funeral will be held tomorrow from the homestead, to which place the remains were conveyed yesterday. Rev. J.G. Lowrie will officiate at 1:30 o'clock p.m. Interment will be at Silver Brook cemetery.


*Additional information from Michigan Death Certificate for Lillie Thomson, age 97y 4m 16d, born Scotland, father James Aitken, mother Jane Walker

Note:  Two obituaries appeared under this headline. The other for Lillie Thomson, born Oct. 23, 1802, who had lived in Niles since 1844 and was the "oldest resident". Sarah A. Bond was born Dec. 7, 1817 but had lived in Niles since 1829.