Obituaries

We now have over 7,000 obituaries collected about the interred here at Silverbrook Cemetery.

The obituaries are transcribed by the volunteers of the Friends of Silverbrook Cemetery from various sources.  If you see an opportunity for an addition or a correction, please email our obituary editor at obits@friendsofsilverbrook.org.

Messenger, Samuel

Samuel Messenger
Dec. 10, 1821-Oct. 28, 1908

 A tribute to the memory of Samuel Messenger.

On December tenth, eighteen twenty-one. Samuel Messenger was born in Easton, Pennsylvania. He died at his home in Niles, Michigan on the morning of October twenty-eighth, nineteen hundred and eight, having rounded out nearly eighty-seven years of life. He was born of German parentage and of the German ancestry he never ceased to be proud. He was one of eight children, five sons and three daughters. When he was a year and half old his fathers family moved near Ithaca, NY, in what was then and long afterwards know as the “Mack settlement.” Here he received a common school education which was supplemented by a somewhat extended course in a select school: in Lewistor. His father died when Samuel was a lad of ten, leaving the care of the family on his oldest brother, Charles. As the brothers, moved into what was then considered the far west,: Michigan, Ohio and Indiana. In 1845 the mother sold the home farm and with Samuel, her youngest son, came to Michigan. They traveled by way of Lake Erie and various stagecoach routes, stopping for dinner the old hotel in Bertrand, a hotel still standing and a town then considered of much more promise than Niles. Soon the farm on Portage Prairie was purchased where Mr. Messenger, continued to reside for many years, the same now owned by his son, Schuyler C. Messenger.

Samuel Messenger was married in 1850 to Miss Ann Mary Wood, four children were born to them. Two of whom, Hetty and Banks, died in infancy, Genevieve Messenger Hammond who died at Arlington, Neb., and Schuyler C. who alone survives. Mrs. Messenger died in 1874.  In 1886 he was married to Mrs. Lavinia Wilitts Kellogg, who with his son, Schuyler, nine grandchildren and a great-grandchild, mourns his loss.

Mr. Messenger held many offices of public trust in his own community, all of which he filled faithfully and acceptably. He was one promoters of the Farmers’ United Fire Insurance co. of Berrien County, and was one of its directors for many years. His character was one of sterling worth, of utmost integrity of loyalty to friends of faithfulness to duty. As one of his lifelong neighbors said, “He was as true a man as ever walked.: in politics he was of the old line of Whigs and, as was natural always stood as a staunch republican. In his church affiliations he was a Presbyterian having attended the First Presbyterian Church of Niles, Mich., for over sixty years, and for more than thirty years of that time acted as one of it trustees. His church life as his civic and family life was remarkable for its trueness, and ostentationally its generosity. The last of his father’s family, he lies in our beautiful Silverbrook cemetery, not alone, but surrounded by many of his own loved ones., his mother, wife, two children, three brothers and a sister resting not many feet away. Nay, his body lies in Silverbrook, he has gone to one of the Many mansions, a man sincerely mourned, by all who knew him. His funeral was held at the home on south fourth Street on Saturday, October 21, attended by Rev. W.R. Yonker, pastor of the Presbyterian church.

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(NB: Gravemarker bears name Samuel Messinger, 1821-1908)

Messenger, Lavina (Willitts)

Lavina Messenger
1844-March 26, 1923

 Funeral services for Mrs. Samuel Messenger were conducted this afternoon at the Presbyterian Church by Rev. H. T. Scherr. Mrs. Albert Vetter and Mrs. Rex Leach sang “Abide With me”: and “Lead Kindly Light”. Burial took place in Silver Brook Cemetery.

Mrs. Lavina Messenger was born in Cambria, Hillsdale County, and died in Niles on March 26, 1923. She was a daughter of Moses and Angelino Willitts. She was of Quaker parentage on her father’s side. Her great-grandfather, Mr. Bunn, served in the revolutionary War. She spent her early life in Hillsdale County, attending the public schools and Hillsdale College. After graduating from Hillsdale College she taught for several years. She came to Niles about 40 years ago and had since resided here. She had taken an active part in church and club work, and civic enterprises. She was one of the four Niles women who were on the committee to secure the site for the Niles public library building. The deceased is survived by three sisters and a brother, who are Miss Alice Willits of Niles, Miss Sarah Willitts of Shelby, Mich., and Mrs. Bryon L. Reed of Jersey City and Henry Willitts of Hillsdale. 

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Mentor, Audrey J.

Audrey J. Mentor
Oct. 18, 1932-Jan. 26, 2005

Audrey J. Mentor, 72, of South Bend, passed away Wednesday, January 26, 2005, in Regency Place of South Bend.

She was born October 18, 1932, in Galien, Michigan, to Harold and Marie (Keefer) Salisbury.

Mrs. Mentor is survived by her daughters, Susie LaPorte (Jerry) of Fort Wayne, Indiana, and Laura Luczynski of South Bend; and a son, Michael VanLue of Benton Harbor, Michigan; five grandchildren, Angel, Dawn, Christopher, Corey and Clinton; two great-grandchildren, Dessy and Jonathan; two sisters, Irene Bell (Irvin) of Buchanan, Michigan, and Shirley Skinner (Richard) of Niles, Michigan.

She was preceded by her parents, and by a brother, Billy Salisbury.

Audrey was a retired licensed practical nurse and worked many years for the Osteopathic Hospital in South Bend and many nursing homes in the South Bend area.

Funeral services will be held at noon Saturday, January 29, 2005, in the Welsheimer Family Funeral Home North, 17033 Cleveland Road, and burial will follow at Silverbrook Cemetery, Niles. Friends may call one hour prior to services.

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Mell, Richard Henry

Richard H. Mell
March 13, 1937-Feb. 9, 2003

Mr. Richard Henry Mell, 65, of S.W. Ninth Street, Margate, Fla., and formerly longtime of Niles, Mich., died following an extended illness at 2:30 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 9, 2003, in Holy Cross Hospital, Fort Lauderdale, Fla.

He was born on March 13, 1937, in Niles, to Morrison G. and Minnie (Varnum) Mell, and was graduated from Niles High School in 1955. He served in the U.S. Army during peacetime, and was retired as an engineering consultant to the aerospace industry. Also while in Niles he participated in several of the Masonic Organizations.

In 1972 Mr. Mell moved to Florida where he was a member of the Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church, Fort Lauderdale, and prior to his long illness had been a member of the choir and participated in Evangelism Explosion.

On June 14, 1991, in Niles, he was married to the former Charlene (Dreher) Schumacher, who survives. He is also survived by his children, Richard F. (Linda) Mell, Sharon K. Johnson, Jack G. "John" Mell and Jane F. (Richard, Jr.) Green, all of Tampa, Fla., and Jason A. Kirchner of Fort Lauderdale; stepdaughter, Johanna (Ken) Braniff of Niles; stepson, John (Cynthia) Schumacher of Niles; grandchildren, Bryan and Ashley Johnson, Kristina Mell and Marisa Pruitt-Green; step-grandchildren, Amber Marie and John Merle Schumacher Jr.; and his mother, Minnie Mell of Deerfield Beach, Fla.; and nephews, Christopher and Matthew Mell. He had also been a foster father of Matthew Spicher, Jennifer (Terry) Lathinghouse, and Kim Brannon and her child, Shari, all of who survive in Florida.

He was preceded in death by his brother, Jack G. Mell in September 2002; and their father, Morrison G. Mell.

Funeral services for Richard H. Mell will be at 11 a.m. Friday, Feb. 14, in First Baptist Church of Niles, with Rev. Scott A. Goodman of the church and Mr. Jim Wing of Five Pines Ministries officiating. Committal services will follow at the graveside at Silverbrook Cemetery, Niles, and will conclude with the veteran's flag presentation by American Legion Post #24 Commander John McLaughlin.

The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. today in Halbritter Funeral Home, Niles.

Contributions in memory of Richard Mell may be made to Evangelism Explosion at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church.

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Medders, Cleo Ruby

Cleo Ruby Medders
May 30, 1907-May 16, 1994

Services for Cleo Ruby Medders, 86, of 17 N. Seventh St., Niles, who died at 10:07 a.m. Monday May 16, 1994,  of injuries suffered in a traffic accident at Auten and Kenilworth roads, South Bend, will be at 1 p.m. Friday in Halbritter Funeral Home. Burial will be in Silverbrook Cemetery. Friends may call from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday in the funeral home. She was born May 30, 1907, in Buchanan. On April 18, 1925, in St. Joseph Township, she married Jerry Clinton Bullen. He died in February 1968. On March 5, 1971, in Niles, she married William Louie Medders. He died Oct. 3, 1983. Surviving are two daughters, Vivian Elaine Streyle of Niles and Becky Ann Withrow of Deer Park, Texas; a son, Gary Allan Bullen of Pahoa, Hawaii; eight grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; and two sisters, Norma Jean Goble of Sarasota, Fla., and Mary Lou Beck of Edwardsburg. She was a member of Wesley United Methodist Church.

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Mead, Hilda

Hilda Mead
July 22, 1912-Aug. 14, 1994

Services for Hilda Mead, 82, of 417 N. 14th St., Niles,  who died at 8:30 a.m. Sunday Aug. 14, 1994, in Pawating Hospital after an illness, will be at 2 p.m. Thursday in Halbritter Funeral Home. Burial will be in Silverbrook Cemetery. Friends may call from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday in the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to any charity.

Mrs. Mead retired in 1977 from Simplicity Pattern Co. She was born July 22, 1912, in Leeds, England, and had lived in Niles since 1920. She married Thomas Lutzen, who died in January 1948. On Oct. 29, 1946, in Huntington, Ind., she married Clarence E. Mead. He died April 28, 1980. Surviving are two daughters, Linda Mead Leet and Connie Lutzen Stark, both of Niles; a son, George Lutzen of Niles; a stepson, Bill Mead of Niles; nine grandchildren; and 23 great-grandchildren. A daughter and a grandson preceded her in death. Mrs. Mead was a former president of the Simplicity Retirement Club. She was a member of Trinity Episcopal Church; the Golden Age Club of the YMCA; Red Bud Senior Citizens Club, Buchanan; American Legion Post 51 Auxiliary, Buchanan; and Edwardsburg Golden Age Club.

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McMillan, Violet Cassie (Ingleright)

Violet C. McMillan
May 10, 1901-Oct. 6, 2002

Mrs. Violet Cassie McMillan, 101, of Oak Street, Niles, Mich., died following a brief illness at 6:35 p.m. Sunday, Oct. 6, 2002  in Lakeland Medical Center, Niles.

She was born on May 10, 1901, in Rose City, Mich., to Katherine Fedelia (McCormack) and Leon Ray Ingleright, M.D. In 1924 Dr. Ingleright moved his family to Niles into the newly constructed house on Oak Street in which Mrs. McMillan lived the rest of her life. She also maintained a home in Fort Lauderdale, Fla. She had been a member of First Presbyterian Church, Niles.

She earned a bachelor's degree in music performance from the University of Michigan, and a master's degree from a fine arts school in Chicago, Ill. She was a professional musician all of her life, specializing in piano and organ. She organized and toured the United States with two groups, "Violet Joy and the Bluebelles" and "The Brickheads" all redhead girl band. In Niles she often performed at the Four Flags Hotel and the former Roberts Supper Club.

On Nov. 8, 1958, she was married to Tom Lucas, who died in 1971. Then, on July 19, 1972, in Eau Claire, Mich., she married Neil McMillan, who died on Nov. 19, 1988. She was also preceded in death by her parents, and by her brother, Ray "Doc" Ingleright.

She is survived by a stepson, John (Carol) Lucas of Bay City, Mich.; a niece, Margaret (Marvin "Kip") LaVanway of Eau Claire; a nephew, Leon "Butch" (Lynn) Ingleright of Florida; and by several grand-nieces and nephews.

Funeral services for Violet C. McMillan will be at 2 p.m. today, Oct. 9, in the Halbritter Funeral Home, Niles, with Pastor Kevin Parkins of Friends in Faith Community Church, Eau Claire, officiating. Committal services will follow at Silverbrook Cemetery, Niles. The family will receive friends in the funeral home for an hour prior to the funeral.

Contributions in memory of Violet may be made to LESEA Ministries, or to Running Strong for American Indian Youth Christian Relief Services.

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